The dating scene is a strange one. It’s like one big game. If you take a step back and look at animal mating rituals you can see that how we humans behave when we are trying to attract a partner doesn’t vary much at all from animals.
The principles between humans and other animals are the same. There are rituals and games that both sexes play to become and stay attractive to women.
Let’s take for example neediness. Both men and women aren’t attratced to someone who is needy, it’s just not something that turns people on. What men want in a woman is someone who has her life together, someone who is in control of her emotions and who is a little bit hard to get.
If a woman is easy to get a man will be less attracted to her. These things are just facts and are built in to us, it’s part of our natural human behaviour.
So, one of the most important things a man or woman can do is get his or her life together first, become attractive to yourself and then other people will find you attractive.